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Jack Fisher’s Sexy Sunday Thoughts: Summer Blockbuster Edition

Last year was the worst of all worst-case scenario for movie theaters. I even wrote about it a few times, speculating and even lamenting on the future of movie theaters and the movie industry, in general. There’s just no getting around it. Last year was the worst year ever for the movie industry. It was also a very jarring year in that we could not enjoy a typical summer blockbuster.

For me, that was both heartbreaking and deeply distressing. Even before the rise of the superhero movies that I’ve come to love, summer blockbusters were an integral part of what made summer great. I still have fond memories of going to the movies on a Saturday with my family and seeing whatever mindless spectacle that a studio spent way too much on.

They weren’t always deep or mind-blowing. They were just fun. That’s what a summer blockbuster is supposed to be. It’s big, flashy, cinematic fun for anyone willing to overpay for popcorn and candy. Even though I’ve come to enjoy watching new movies at home via HBO Max, I’m still very willing to spend my money at a movie theater.

After last year, I’ve only come to appreciate summer blockbusters even more. The release of “Black Widow” is as clear a sign as any that summer blockbusters are back. This time, I’m going to enjoy them even more than usual and I encourage everyone who enjoys a regular trip to the movies to do the same.

Now that the proverbial floodgates are opened, the time is right to celebrate the return of the summer blockbuster. To contribute to that celebration, here are some Sexy Sunday Thoughts. They may not inspire you to go to a movie theater, but I hope they still inspire you in other ways. Enjoy!


“What is a kink if not an individual’s shortcut to a good orgasm?”

OmgYes Website Will Show You How to Make Her Orgasm ​ | Men's Health

“You know you’re in love when your lips have willingly touched every inch of someone else’s body.”

20 Types Of Kisses + The Meaning Behind Each

“The quality of a school’s sex ed classes are often inversely proportional to the number of pregnant teenagers.”


“The popularity of incest porn is proof that some people should never be allowed to time travel.”

How are Jon Snow and Daenerys Targaryen related? Why the Game of Thrones  romance is (just a little bit) awkward

“Parents who refuse to talk to their children about sex are dooming them to a very awkward experience on their wedding night.”

Saving Sex for Marriage: What to Expect on Your Wedding Night

“Great sex can hide major flaws in a relationship, but it can also motivate two people into navigating those flaws.”

Wedding night blunders! 10 brides confess | Her World Singapore

“Good ideas can get you laid once, but great ideas can get you laid regularly.”

6 Foods for First Night to Get Passionate and Keep the Fire Burning

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It’s Official: I’m Going To New York Comic Con 2021!

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I’ve been sitting on this news for a while. In my defense, I needed some time to make sure it was real and make the necessary plans. I make no apologies because I’m just too excited to announce this.

I got my ticket to New York Comic Con 2021!

Just typing that put a big smile on my face. Words cannot do justice to the joy I felt once it sank in.

Now, I’ve been to New York Comic Con before. I’ve shared my experience on this site on multiple occasions. It has been my favorite annual tradition since I started going back in 2013. Being in that big convention hall, surrounded by so many spectacles and people who share my love of comics, is such a thrill. Every year, it seems, I find another reason to love it.

However, last year was nothing short of heartbreaking for reasons I don’t want to dwell on. Even though I expected it, the news that the New York Comic Con was cancelled was just devastating on so many levels. It felt weird in those first few weeks of October, not dressing up and spending time in New York City. I had serious concerns that I might go another year without going to a comic book convention.

Well, I can set most of those concerns aside for now. I have my ticket. I made my travel plans. I’m even making plans to wear a different costume this year. Again, I cannot overstate how excited I am for this.

It’s not just a sign that the world is healing and things are steadily returning to a sense of normalcy. It’s a chance to make up for what was lost last year. Every year I go to New York Comic Con is special, but I’m more determined than ever to make this year even more special.

I’ll be sure to share some of those plans as they materialize. I don’t want to confirm anything now, but you can be certain I won’t be able to contain my joy, more so than usual. Also, if anyone else is going to the New York Comic Con this year, I encourage them to follow that same spirit.

Last year sucked.

This year, more than most, is worth making extra awesome.

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Jack Fisher’s Sexy Sunday Thoughts: Summer Grilling Edition

Every summer brings its share of unique activities that have equally unique sex appeal. It’s easy to single out beaches, bikinis, and heat waves that keep people from wearing much clothing. I certainly appreciate all those things and the inherent sexiness they bring. After last year, I like to think I appreciate them even more.

However, there is another underrated summer activity that can also have a unique sex appeal. It involves the inherent appeal of grilling delicious food. Now, that’s not to imply a particular food fetish. That’s an entirely different kink that I won’t get into. If you want to look into it, then by all means. Just remember to delete your browser history.

The kind of appeal I’m referring to has more to do with the unique flavors and settings that summer grilling offers. Growing up, I often went to family reunions or attended family gatherings that involves a great deal of grilling. The smells alone made those gatherings memorable. Just writing about it makes me hungry.

As I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to appreciate the joys of grilling burgers, hot dogs, steaks, bacon, and pretty much anything you can throw on a griddle. It’s not just delicious. In the summer, it’s part of a communal activity.

People are drawn to delicious food for the same reason horny men are drawn to boobs. It’s an appeal not restricted to any gender. Regardless of which body parts you find appealing, you can still appreciate a good burger. You can also appreciate the inherent sexiness of watching someone eat a large hot dog.

This is a great time of year to get outside, fire up a grill, and cook up some classic summer meats. It might not get you laid, but it will get you and everyone around you some delicious food. What could be more fulfilling than that? If that doesn’t get you hungry, here are some Sexy Sunday Thoughts to help stir your appetite. Enjoy!


“To some extent, a sexual fantasy involves lying your way to a better orgasm.”

The 15 sex fantasies she craves | Muscle & Fitness

“Is it wrong to be suspicious of someone who owns a large leash and no dog?”

Meet The Man Who Walks His Fiancé On A Leash | YourTango

“Someone saying “Oops!” can precede their demise or someone else’s conception.”

This awkward couple are the living embodiment of #RelationshipGoals

“Power corrupts, but great sex motivates.”

PREMIUM Couple Making Love In Bed STOCK ASSETS | Adobe Stock

“You should never play poker with someone who is good at faking orgasms.”

6 Daily Habits That Affect Your Orgasm (& There's Bad News For Cheese  Lovers)

“Like it or not, there’s a chance that finding the love of your life involves getting or giving a great blowjob.”

Boyfriend, Husband Faking Orgasm | Glamour

“The fact that the threat of Hell doesn’t prevent religious people from masturbating proves the true power of orgasms.”

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Jack Fisher’s Sexy Sunday Thoughts: 4th Of July 2021 Edition

Happy Birthday, America!

It’s that time of year again, but this time it’s more meaningful than usual. I know this year hasn’t been kind to the country I love. Between a global pandemic and an attempted insurrection, this has been a rough year for America. As an American, I’ve felt it. I’ve groaned, cringed, and lamented more than once this year.

At the same time, I remain hopeful.

As bad as the first part of this year has been, we can objectively say that things are better now than they were at this time last year. Thanks to a change in leadership, as well as the development of effective vaccines, America has been on a road to recovery. There’s still plenty of room for improvement, but we’re still progressing and that’s a good thing.

That’s very much in line with the story of America, itself. This country was founded on high ideals, but operated by flawed, misguided individuals. There’s no denying that we’ve made mistakes, as both a country and a society. Some were so bad that we had to fight a war over them. We should acknowledge that.

At the same time, we shouldn’t let those flaws and mistakes stop us from celebrating America’s highest ideals. Those ideals still matter. They’ve always mattered. They’ve been a driving force for generations of Americans, going all the way back to the founding. Let today be both a reminder and motivator.

We’ve come a long way, America. We still have so much further to go. For today, though, let’s celebrate the 4th of July as only Americans can. To get you into the patriotic spirit, here are some Sexy Sunday Thoughts. Enjoy!


“Sometimes, sexual taboos end up being potent lubricants for elaborate kinks.”

How to Explore Kink Responsibly

“An impotent man with a skilled tongue can still satisfying many women.”

Man kissing woman on the neck | Goalcast

“A couple achieving simultaneous orgasm during sex was probably classified as the first miracle.”

How To Orgasm At The Same Time As Your Partner, According To An Expert

“When you think about it, dildos and toy guns have a lot in common.”

A peek into my toybox/dildo collection. Not all are BD and I'm happy to  answer where any are from!: BadDragon

“An arranged marriage a family’s way of telling someone they don’t trust them to use their genitals wisely.”

7 Things I Wish More People Understood About My Arranged Marriage | SELF

“There’s a good chance you know someone who put something weird up their butt at some point.”

4 Dating Sites for Kinky Couples | Hookup Land

“Premature ejaculation is nature’s way of telling a man he’s not ready for a threesome.”

Man and Two Women in Bed Together | things ive learnt along the way...

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Jack Fisher’s Sexy Sunday Thoughts: Pride 2021 Edition

I hope everyone has been having a good Pride Month. In addition, I hope those who regularly whine about pride month and denigrate the ongoing challenges of the LGBTQ community have used this opportunity to either educate themselves or rightly fucked off. After what happened last year, I think we’ve all earned the right to be a little extra fabulous this time around.

I proudly support the LGBTQ community. I am a straight male, but I have friends and relatives who are LGBTQ. I’ve also known people who have struggled with their sexuality. It’s hard to overstate how difficult and damaging it can be. Even though there has been considerable progress over the past 20 years, many still face immense hardship.

There are still dozens of countries in which it’s illegal to be gay.

There are entire religious denominations that vehemently oppose basic human rights to LGBTQ individuals.

There’s an entire political party in America that actively seeks to roll back the progress the LGBTQ community has made.

The struggle is far from over and we should all remain vigilant moving forward. For now, though, let’s use Pride Month as a chance to celebrate how far we’ve come. Whether you identify as gay, queer, non-binary, or transgender, use this month to just celebrate who you are. I will gladly celebrate with you and so will many others.

In that spirit, here is a round of my Sexy Sunday Thoughts in honor of Pride Month 2021. Enjoy and keep being fabulous!


“Patience is a virtue, but only to a limited extent when you’re horny.”

4 Sex Positions For When You Are Tired But Horny | Relationships

“Logistically, giving and receiving oral sex requires good negotiating skills.”

Making a Guy Horny - Gossip123.com

“For better or worse, our tastes in porn will never be as revealing as our browser history.”

Facebook Kills Clickbait — How They Did It Will Shock You! EverSpark  Interactive

“Aspirin is to headaches what orgasms are to depression.”

7 reasons why women might not be able to orgasm | The Independent | The  Independent

“Like it or not, only a dominatrix finds weakness sexy.”

Meet the College Professor Who Moonlights as a Dominatrix

“To some extent, every repressive society tries to make people content with having boring sex lives.”

What To Do When You're Bored With Your Sex Life, According To Sexperts |  HuffPost Life

“Drunk sex isn’t much of an accomplishment, but a drunk threesome definitely is.”

Threesome App - 3nder App

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Jack Fisher’s Sexy Sunday Thoughts: Father’s Day 2021 Edition

Being a parent is hard. I think most people can agree on that. I’m not a parent yet. One day, I hope I can be when I meet the right woman. In the meantime, I see what parents deal with. I’ve seen how difficult it can be to talk to a child, keep up with a child, and protect them in a world that just seems to get crazier with each passing day.

That just makes me appreciate my own parents even more. Honestly, I still don’t know how they managed, but I’m grateful they did. I always make it a point to celebrate how awesome my mother is on Mother’s Day. I try to make the same effort every Father’s Day, as well. It’s a day where I’ll make this same statement and belabor it to death.

My dad is awesome.

My dad is the absolute best.

My dad was, and still is, my first superhero.

I know that makes me very lucky. I know plenty of people who do not have a good relationship with their father. It affects them in profound ways. Having an awesome father like mine also has a profound impact, but in the best possible way.

For every hard lesson I’ve learned and every challenge I’ve overcome, I can trace the strength I needed back to my dad. He taught me how to work hard, do the right thing, and carry myself as good, decent man. For that, I will be forever grateful. To all the other awesome fathers out there, I hope you get to do something special for Father’s Day.

To all those grateful sons out there, like myself, make the extra effort for your dad. They’ve earned it. To that end, here are some Sexy Sunday Thoughts to help celebrate the awesome dads out there. After all, without sexy thoughts, we wouldn’t be here. Enjoy!


“Making love to a song runs the risk of getting horny every time you hear that song.”

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“Inviting a necrophiliac to a funeral is risk to all those involved, including the corpse.”

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“You can tell how conflicted someone is about their sexuality by how cautiously they eat a hot dog.”

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“Pity sex is a major reason why losers and whiners haven’t gone extinct.”

10 Reasons Why Nerdy Guys Make Better Boyfriends - 29Secrets

“Practically speaking, broken condoms have the opposite effect of faulty seatbelts.”

A woman holding a condom - ABC News (Australian Broadcasting Corporation)

“You don’t drive drunk for the same reason you don’t play truth or dare while you’re horny.”

85+ Sexy Truth Or Dares For Couples and Free Printable Bedroom Game | Love  Hope Adventure

“Making love when you’re not in the mood isn’t that different from eating a slice of cake when you’re not hungry.”

157 Cake Eating Sexy Woman Photos - Free & Royalty-Free Stock Photos from  Dreamstime

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Jack Fisher’s Sexy Sunday Thoughts: Sexy Lifeguard Edition

Summer is finally here and unlike last year, we may actually get to enjoy it. I certainly have no intentions of taking it for granted this year. That means traveling, going out, and spending plenty of time at the beach or by the pool. However, a good chunk of those summer activities require the services of lifeguards.

Now, I don’t think I need to explain to anyone who was a teenager in the 90s why life guards have sex appeal. An entire generation grew up on watching “Baywatch.” Between Pamela Anderson’s breasts and David Hasselhoff’s chest hair, they know and appreciate the sex appeal.

Even generations before that had shows like “Charlie’s Angels.” While it wasn’t a show about lifeguards, the concept and the aesthetics are similar. You know what I mean by that. Don’t pretend otherwise.

However, lifeguards need extra appreciation this year and not just because last year was such a wash. As I write this, there is a nationwide lifeguard shortage. The pools and beaches are open. They want to open, but they lack the necessary lifeguard staff to stay open. It’s frustrating, but that just makes the inherent sex appeal of lifeguards even more prominent.

I know people who are lifeguards. I have family members who were lifeguards at one point in their lives. It’s a serious job that sometimes requires people to confront serious situations, all while wearing a swimsuit. That takes skill, focus, and a willingness to over-apply sunblock. They are the arbiters of summer fun and for that, they deserve our respect and our admiration.

Hopefully, the shortage this summer helps us appreciate the role of lifeguard even more. I also hope it encourages others to train for the job. It may require a few classes, but you get to wear a sexy swimsuit all day. I say that’s more than worth it. To those who seek and embrace this inherently sexy job, here are some Sexy Sunday Thoughts in your honor. Enjoy!


“Having a thing for women’s panties is like licking soup cans when you’re hungry.”

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“Outside a brothel, there’s no appropriate place to find a used condom.”

Vietnam police seize 345,000 used condoms that were sold as new - CNN

“In a traffic jam, the odds are good you’ve passed by someone getting oral sex while driving.”

Premium Photo | A young woman is indignant sitting in the car during a traffic  jam.

“Prostitution is one of the few professions that thrives in any economy.”

Kiev Prostitutes photos | IMAGO

“Chest hair on men is only as sexy as their personal hygiene allows.”

How to Trim Chest Hair | Men's Grooming Tips

“To some extent, a marriage proposal is telling someone that you love them so much that you’re willing to risk an ugly divorce.”

Marriage Proposal Ideas

“A slut becoming a prostitute is a classic example of someone playing to their strengths.”

Czech Republic: “For many prostitutes, social stigma is a bigger threat  than a slap in the face” – Kafkadesk

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Jack Fisher’s Sexy Sunday Thoughts: Sexy Flexibility Edition

Being flexible in a relationship, romantic or otherwise, is generally a good thing. Being physically flexible can be useful too, but not nearly on the same scale. However, that scale changes considerably during sexy situations.

You don’t have to have too dirty a mind to know what I’m referring to. Regardless of your gender, you’ve probably thought about it any time you see someone bend their bodies in awkward ways. While it’s certainly an impressive feat, it’s how we put those skills into practice where things get really fun.

When I was in high school, I knew this girl who loved to show off how flexible she was. She could easily do a split like it was nothing. She could also lift her let up and put her foot behind her head while standing. She loved showing this off in gym class. She also got plenty of intrigued looks by boys. I suspect that’s why she did it.

I won’t speculate too much into the graphic possibilities. I’ll save that for my novels and my sexy short stories. I’ll just say that those who can be both mentally and physically flexible have an edge when it comes to their love life. If you have a dirty mind, you know why. If not, here are some Sexy Sunday Thoughts to get it going. Enjoy!


“The only line between BDSM and being a disciplinarian is the general horniness of those involved.”

Real Estate Broker Quits Her Job To Become A £500-Per-Hour Dominatrix -  LADbible

“Shaking someone’s hand implies you’re comfortable with how recently they’ve masturbated.”

Why do we shake hands in the first place? | wtsp.com

“In a world full of perverts, aren’t prudes technically the kinkiest?”

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“The depth of a couples’ love is directly proportional to their willingness to fart in front of one another.”

Hilarious 'Happy Couple' Instagram Account Exposes Those Frauds Who Pretend  To Have The Perfect Life On Social Media - BroBible

“Practically speaking, the internet has rendered streaking obsolete.”

Streaking is outlawed in some parts of Australia, so here are 6 of the best

“When a man is horny, his dick is the most liberal part of his body in that it does not discriminate.”

Sexy couple laying on bed – Stockphoto

“Statistically, it’s very likely that man with a large penis will fall in love with a masochist.”

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Ten Harsh Truths I’ve Learned In My Life (So Far)

The world is a big, strange, overwhelming place, to say nothing of the universe. We all live in this world for a brief span of time, relative to the age of the planet and of the human species. Within that life, we all learn, grow, and adapt. Some change more than others, but for the most part, we’re not the same person at 50 as we are at 15.

I find that, as I get older, I realize certain truths about life that are somewhat harsh. Some are downright frustrating. It doesn’t matter how you feel about them. That doesn’t make them any less true. You can’t always grasp it when you’re young and inexperienced. Certain things can only become clear with time. You have to live life in this crazy world for a certain number of years before you can truly see the forest from the trees.

I’m not a teenager. I’m not even in my 20s anymore. However, I’m still not what most would consider old. I know I’ll get there one day. I imagine I’ll encounter plenty more harsh truths along the way. Some will hit me harder than others. Some may not hit me until I’m too old to do anything about them. I won’t know for sure until that time comes.

For now, I thought I’d take a moment to share some of these harsh truths. Some of this was inspired by some posts on Reddit in which people share some of those truths, as they’ve come to know them. I don’t agree with all of them, but some do fit nicely with what I’ve experienced.

With that in mind, here are ten harsh truths I’ve learned that I’ve come to realize at this point in my life. Rest assured, I’ve learned much more than ten. These are just the most prominent that I feel are worth sharing.

1. The world owes you nothing. You can’t expect it or anyone in it to accommodate you. You are ultimately responsible for making the most of your opportunities.

2. A lot of success requires a certain amount of dumb luck. Hard work, patience, and persistence certainly are a factor, but meeting the right people and being in the right situation tend to be more decisive.

3. Nobody’s first instinct is to do things the hard way. For the most part, people will always take the path of least resistance when it comes to challenges, change, and hardship.

4. Like it or not, there are people who are just born more talented than you at certain things and there’s nothing you can do about it. No matter how hard you work or apply yourself, you’ll never be as good as them.

5. No matter what sort of relationship you have with your parents, they’ll always affect you in ways you won’t be comfortable with.

6. You will miss on a lot of opportunities that’ll only become clear with hindsight and that’s okay. You need only seize a few to make things worthwhile.

7. Bullies, assholes, and idiots will get away with egregious misdeeds and there’s nothing you can do about it.

8. People are tribal about many things. There’s no way around it. That’s just how we’re wired. Trying to get people to see beyond their tribal affiliations is a losing battle and one that’ll only make people hate you.

9. You cannot change someone’s mind by arguing with them or yelling at them. You can only appeal to them personally and hope they’ll come around. However, not everyone will.

10. At some point in your life, you’re going to believe or buy into something that will make you feel foolish later on.

That list is likely to change and grow with time. If you have a list of your own that you’d like to share, please do so in the comments.

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COVID-19 Restrictions Lifted: Thoughts, Feelings, And (Unexpected) Implications

Mayo Expert: Fla. Will Suffer 'Unnecessary Deaths' As COVID-19 Restrictions  Are Lifted | WJCT NEWS

This past week marked a huge milestone for my home state. Like so many others, the COVID-19 restrictions that have pretty much defined our lives since late March of 2020 were finally lifted. At this very moment, we are no longer in a State of Emergency.

There are no more capacity restrictions on restaurants, bars, gyms, and movie theaters.

There are no more mask requirements that are enforced by the state.

There are no more social distancing requirements for outdoor or indoor events.

Just typing that out put a smile on my face. It also fills me with this strange array of emotions that I don’t quite know how to articulate. Like so many other fellow Americans, I watched this year-long horror show that was the COVID-19 pandemic unfold before my eyes.

I felt it affect me, my friends, my community, and my family in profound ways. I know people who got the disease. Some of them still don’t have their sense of taste and smell back entirely. I know people who have died from this disease. I also was unable to attend major family events, including a wedding, because of this damned disease.

I could go on, but I won’t. It’s just impossible to overstate how big an impact this disease had on our world. It’s going to leave scars that will last years. It’s going to define an entire generation and beyond. If I ever have kids, I’m going to struggle to explain to them what it was like, navigating this pandemic.

For a time, it felt truly apocalyptic. There was a long stretch last year where my dad and I were constantly making up dates for when things would get back to “normal.” At one point, it was May 15th, 2020. At another, we thought the 4th of July would be the end of it. Then, we started looking towards Labor Day.

At some point, we just came to realize that there was no use hoping anymore. We had no idea when this would end. For all we knew, this pandemic would draw out for years. Even after news about a vaccine emerged, we were still skeptical. A life without COVID-19 restrictions still seemed so far away.

Now, that day has come.

However, the effects are still there.

Recently, I went out to have breakfast with my parents at one of our favorite diners. There were no capacity restrictions. There were no mask requirements either. However, a number of people were still wearing masks, including most of the staff. My parents even wore masks when they first entered, even though they’re both fully vaccinated. I didn’t wear one, but I had one with me, just in case.

To some extent, it was downright jarring, not having to wear a mask. Yes, it was liberating in some ways, but it still felt so unusual after having spent over a year under these restrictions. You almost feel more vulnerable not wearing one, especially in an enclosed space like a crowded diner. I’m sure that’s a feeling we’ll have to get used to again, but it doesn’t change one inescapable truth.

This “normal” that we’ve been waiting for doesn’t feel “normal” to us anymore.

I don’t know if that’s temporary or if that’s something that will linger on for years to come. I know people who have stated outright that they’re going to keep wearing masks, even if the number of COVID-19 cases drops to zero. To them, the mask has become just another part of their lives. The see it like a seatbelt or hand soap. It’s not about avoiding a disease anymore. It’s about staying healthy.

That’s an implication that I don’t know that we’ve collectively processed. I certainly haven’t. I’ve no inclination to throw away my masks. I also have no plans to stop the frequent handwashing that I’ve come to embrace since last March. That does lead me to wonder whether this is truly our new “normal.”

I put that in quotes because, now that the state mandated restrictions are lifted, it’s on us to determine what form that normal takes. Will that mean always wearing a mask in certain settings? Just the other day, I went to the grocery store and I still wore a mask. The signs on the front doors saying they were required were still there. Until they come down, I’ll keep doing so.

At the same time, a part of me feels like I’m still adjusting. I’m almost reluctant to embrace a post-pandemic world because I saw how bad it got last year. Maybe that feeling will fade with time. Maybe within a few months, mask wearing will become a rarity and everyone will be eager to put the memories of the pandemic behind them.

I don’t claim to know what will happen. I just know that it’s going to take a while to get out of this mindset that a year of pandemic restrictions has wrought.

That’s just my experience, though. How do you feel? Have the restrictions in your state been lifted? If so, how have you and your family reacted? Please feel free to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments.

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