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It’s Officially Allergy Season (And I HATE It)

Around this time of year, I can safely say I’m sick of winter. The holidays have been over for months. I’m tired of dressing in layers, just to get the mail. I am very ready for warmer weather, longer days, and the ability to walk around my living room naked if I felt so inclined.

You’d think that means I welcome the start of spring. To some extent, I do. However, the arrival of spring comes with a major catch and it’s a pretty damn big one. Because it involves allergies.

For my entire life, I’ve suffered from bad allergies. Not all of it is seasonal. I’m allergic to some fairly standard stuff like dust and certain kinds of pet dander. When I was a kid, it got pretty bad. I had to take prescription medications for years. That helped, but only to a point. On particularly bad days, I would still feel it. Unfortunately, most of those days tend to occur in the spring.

Even as my allergies have gotten better with time, they’re still a nuisance. Most of the time, they’re manageable. I no longer have to rely on prescriptions to deal with the symptoms. Whenever they flair up, I can endure with medicine you’d find in the pharmacy section of any grocery store. They don’t need to be too potent. They just have to ease sinus headaches and de-clog my nose so I can sleep.

But with spring, it’s not always enough. When the trees start blooming, along with the grass, the air becomes thick with pollen. In the area where I live, it’s not uncommon to see layers of the stuff on cars in the morning. For most people, it’s just something you can wash off with a hose or wait until it rains. For me, it’s often a sign that I’m going to have a rough day.

My eyes will itch.

My head will heart.

My nose will get stuffy and congested.

If it gets really bad, I’ll feel a bad itch on the roof of my mouth. That means I need to take something or every other symptom will intensify. That means taking meds that make me drowsy or nasal sprays that have a nasty rebound effect. I don’t like having to do it. I try to tough it out as best I can, mostly to just get it over with. But that’s not always possible. Sometimes, I need something to help me function. Again, most of those times happen during spring.

This morning, I saw a light layer of pollen on my car. At this very moment, as I type this, my head is starting to hurt. And I’ve had enough sinus-induced headaches to know the signs. It means for the next few weeks, I need to keep allergy medications within reach. It also means quality sleep will be at a premium. I am not looking forward to any of that. But it’s not something I can avoid.

I know I’m not the only one who suffers from allergies. There are probably people who have it way worse than me. To those people, I feel for you. We’re both in for a rough time as spring sets in. We’ll get through it, as we always do. It’s just going to be unpleasant and uncomfortable at times.

But once we get through it and summer approaches, it’ll be so worth it.

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Recounting My Fondest Easter Memories

As a holiday, Easter tends to be somewhat forgettable. Unless you’re a member of a religious sect that really emphasizes the religious aspects of Easter, it’s probably not on your list of favorite holidays. It’s on a Sunday, which means nobody gets a day off school. It doesn’t involve fancy presents or decorations, either. I imagine some people didn’t even realize that Easter is tomorrow.

That’s understandable. I certainly don’t fault anyone who only knows Easter as the holiday that inspires egg-shaped candy. For me, however, Easter has a more personal meaning. It’s not for any religious or cultural reasons. It has everything to do with how I experienced it with my family.

As I’ve noted before, and will likely note many times over, my family is awesome. It would take days on end to list all the reasons why, but Easter is among the more unique reasons. That’s because my family rarely needs a major excuse to throw a party.

Whether it’s a holiday, a major life event, or a combination of the two, we jump at the chance to make it into a formal get-together. Even after various family members have moved away for one reason or another, we still make an effort to come together and enjoy each other’s company. Easter was just one of them.

With that in mind, I’d like to share one particular Easter memory that has always stood out for me. It happened when I was a young, overly energetic kid. At the time, everything was still new to me and I didn’t entirely understand the Easter holiday. I just knew that it involved going to my grandmother’s house and having a big dinner with my many relatives.

That may not sound like much, but trust me. For a kid, it meant a lot. That’s because my grandmother was an incredible cook. She took to cooking Easter dinner the same way most take to cooking Thanksgiving dinner for a football team. From the crack of dawn to sunset, she was in the kitchen, cooking up something delicious. Some were entrees and other were deserts. No matter what it was, I just remember it being delicious.

It eventually culminated around dinner time in the mid to late afternoon. Once my father made the announcement, the rush was on. The food was ready and by then, everyone was starving. I certainly was.

However, there was no way my grandmother’s kitchen table was big enough to handle all the food. Instead, my dad and other relatives set up a this big buffet table in the basement of her house. It was like a shrine to my grandmother’s cooking prowess and everyone congregated to admire its splendor.

To this day, I still remember the amazing smell of that buffet. I can close my eyes and remember the smell of meatballs, ham, ravioli, and sweet potatoes. Beyond the quality of the food, I also remember how happy everyone was as they fixed their plate, found a place to sit, and just hung out to enjoy each other’s company.

It might not sound like much, but as a kid, it left an impression. It showed how powerful it was for family to come together, catch up, and enjoy some great food. You could feel the love, the bonds, and the connections that spanned multiple generations. The fact that people would drive hundreds of miles just to taste my grandmother’s cooking certainly helped.

That Easter really set the tone for how great a family gathering could be. It gave me a lasting impression of who my family was and why the bonds we forged matter so much. I don’t remember much else from that part of my life, but I’ll always remember that Easter.

Sadly, my grandmother is no longer with us. I miss her every day, but I miss her even more whenever Easter comes around. I can’t speak for everyone in my family, but I bet they’d agree that she made every Easter special. Some were just more special than others.

I know this year might feel like a lost year for Easter, but that only makes those bonds we cherish more precious. Even if we can’t come together in a formal gathering, we can still connect. Whether it’s just for a ham dinner or for hiding Easter Eggs for the kids, it’s a chance to come together and it’s a chance worth taking.

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